Grief. Most of us know something about it. It’s a human common denominator.
No matter what our religious or spiritual beliefs, coping with the death of a loved one is difficult. And if that loved one is your child? I don’t know how parents get through it.
When Erik Medhus took his life at the age of 19, his mother Elisa Medhus, M.D. was consumed with grief. As any parent would be. But it sent her on a search, a spiritual journey. Where was her son now? Did his soul still exist?
It was a journey into foreign territory that was all the more amazing because she is not only a physician trained in the scientific method, but was raised by atheists, to boot. And yet, her mind was open.
My own mother died in 1999, sending me on my own search. Like Dr. Medhus, I wondered, Where was she now? and like Dr. Medhus, I had an open mind.
As it turned out, Elisa’s search led her down many paths until finally, she learned that she could communicate with her son in the afterlife. Yes, that’s right. This skeptical physician raised by atheists can connect with her dead son.
I can hear you now: “Sure, she can.” I could write on and on about why I believe her. But. Don’t take my word for it. Make up your own mind. There’s plenty of available information about her story. She’s got a fascinating blog and also has just published a book that details the entire story. If you’ve ever lost someone dear to you, if you have deep spiritual beliefs or even none at all, Dr. Medhus’ story will pique your interest. You’ll want to read it.
I’ve known Elisa for a while and interviewed her HERE. If you’d like to know more about her story, you might start there. Elisa is very candid about it all.
Her brand new book, My Son and the Afterlife: Conversations from the Other Side is now available all the usual places. Her blog is called Channeling Erik–also worth a look.
The gifted medium who channeled Erik for Elisa (and has also channeled for me) is my friend, Jamie Butler. Her website is HERE. You can also LIKE her on Facebook HERE.
I hope you find Elisa’s story as impactful as I have. Oh, and I’m starting the morning off with Jamie, who’s facilitating another visit with my family in the afterlife. Always interesting and surprising.
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“Where is he now?” This reminds me; I pondered a slightly different question when my dad died.
He was a man of many and passionate interests. I found myself wondering, “Where did all that passion, enthusiasm, curiosity go?” It was that delving, curious, scholarly energy that I felt must still be around somewhere, more than Dad as a personality or soul. Or maybe that energy WAS his soul, or its outward manifestation…I’ve never been able to adequately describe it.
It’s that little spark of us that goes on to other lives. I hear you. The truth is, my experiences with Elisa and Jamie have completely changed my spiritual beliefs. Or, I should say, given me some.
Jamie has an amazing gift. Spirit comes through her loud and clear. I have experienced significant growth and peace as a result of my readings with Jamie. She is also a teacher hosting webx sessions on Lewarn it Live. I highly recommend checking her out!
Beth
When I asked the question to my deceased father many years ago, he came to me with the answer. When I occasionally tell the story, I’m often met with skeptical looks. But I know. And I know he knows. And I never have to wonder again.
Thanks for sharing Elisa’s story and yours. I’m off to read now.
Elisa’s credibility comes from her background–there’s nothing there that would lead you to think she’d do this. Erik comes through personality intact. And Jamie? I can’t even express what she’s done for me with my family. I blogged about it last year a bit. She’s so gifted and you will get a lot out of it.
I’m so jealous you’re getting in touch via a medium. I would love to but just can’t afford it. My late hubby pops in every so often but I’d really like to “hear” from him, my Dad, and Grandma. I will check out this book and the blog for sure. Thanks.
The blog will blow your mind—it really comes from a place of certain beliefs, which are taken for granted by blog members–I love going over there and basking. Since I’m lucky enough to count a few people who think I like do among my friends, I’ve been able to live more in that world now than before. It’s fun and so interesting!
You have totally piqued my curiosity here. I’m going to have to check out all the links you’ve provided. I would LOVE t be able to communicate with my father, my sister and the baby I lost many years ago.
I always have very, very vivid dreams involving my grandmother who passed away 26 years ago. I spoke with a rabbi about this. He said in the Jewish religion the deceased will try to contact someone for 120 years, and ALWAYS in a setting familiar to them. Every dream I have involving my grandmother always takes place in her home, or my parents first home where she pent quite a bit of time, No where else.
We just had a candid discussion of this with friends at the coast last night – one of whom’s son died years ago and last Sunday my husband had a reading with a medium/channeler at a service in Portland, Oregon that moved him to tears. Fascinating. Thank you for the links here – I’ve not heard of any of them so look forward to looking.
Timely article. A man I had a long-term relationship with died yesterday. My son was diagnosed with cancer (caught in time, thankfully) in July and my ex-husband died in early May. The losses and grief have really been a challenge for me to deal with. My dad died when I was 17 and while I’ve never spoken with him, I have felt his presence in my life.
I’d be open to the idea of a spiritual guide, or medium. And, thank you for being willing to share your experience so openly.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I, too, know something about grief. I had a terrible relationship with my father in life but in death it’s a whole different story. I’m aware that writing about this is risky because not everyone thinks this way and some judge, but this is what I believe based on experiences I’ve had that are not explainable by logic. The world was once thought to be flat, too, that’s what I always say. You might start with one of Jamie’s calls. It’s low risk and lower cost. Also, her courses are excellent. I did a weekend with her in San Diego and whoa, the unexpected happened. Blessings, Walker.
Whenever we experience a loss we tend to wonder about the afterlife. We want to believe that our loved ones are still here with us even when they are passed. 🙂
I have had dreams that left no doubt in my mind that a loved one was sending me a tender message. I believe the universe sends us messages and if we are quiet we can hear those messages. Thanks for sharing your story.
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“Where is he now?” This reminds me; I pondered a slightly different question when my dad died.
He was a man of many and passionate interests. I found myself wondering, “Where did all that passion, enthusiasm, curiosity go?” It was that delving, curious, scholarly energy that I felt must still be around somewhere, more than Dad as a personality or soul. Or maybe that energy WAS his soul, or its outward manifestation…I’ve never been able to adequately describe it.
It’s that little spark of us that goes on to other lives. I hear you. The truth is, my experiences with Elisa and Jamie have completely changed my spiritual beliefs. Or, I should say, given me some.
Jamie has an amazing gift. Spirit comes through her loud and clear. I have experienced significant growth and peace as a result of my readings with Jamie. She is also a teacher hosting webx sessions on Lewarn it Live. I highly recommend checking her out!
Beth
Yes, going to Jamie’s website and Facebook is the way to connect with some of these great opportunities. Thanks, Beth!
Learn it Live – sorry fo rthe mis spell
When I asked the question to my deceased father many years ago, he came to me with the answer. When I occasionally tell the story, I’m often met with skeptical looks. But I know. And I know he knows. And I never have to wonder again.
Thanks for sharing Elisa’s story and yours. I’m off to read now.
I know, not everyone can go there. I had similar experiences. Knowing is enough, isn’t it?
I can’t imagine that kind of loss and can’t wait to get a reading from Jamie! Great post Carol!
Elisa’s credibility comes from her background–there’s nothing there that would lead you to think she’d do this. Erik comes through personality intact. And Jamie? I can’t even express what she’s done for me with my family. I blogged about it last year a bit. She’s so gifted and you will get a lot out of it.
I’m so jealous you’re getting in touch via a medium. I would love to but just can’t afford it. My late hubby pops in every so often but I’d really like to “hear” from him, my Dad, and Grandma. I will check out this book and the blog for sure. Thanks.
The blog will blow your mind—it really comes from a place of certain beliefs, which are taken for granted by blog members–I love going over there and basking. Since I’m lucky enough to count a few people who think I like do among my friends, I’ve been able to live more in that world now than before. It’s fun and so interesting!
I follow this woman’s daughter (she is a fashion blogger). She often writes about her mother and Erik.
I know about her, Shelley!
You have totally piqued my curiosity here. I’m going to have to check out all the links you’ve provided. I would LOVE t be able to communicate with my father, my sister and the baby I lost many years ago.
It’s a belief I came to over time and experience, as I took a journey of exploration with an open mind. I wish the same for you!
I always have very, very vivid dreams involving my grandmother who passed away 26 years ago. I spoke with a rabbi about this. He said in the Jewish religion the deceased will try to contact someone for 120 years, and ALWAYS in a setting familiar to them. Every dream I have involving my grandmother always takes place in her home, or my parents first home where she pent quite a bit of time, No where else.
Your rabbi discussion is fascinating. I hadn’t heard that before.
We just had a candid discussion of this with friends at the coast last night – one of whom’s son died years ago and last Sunday my husband had a reading with a medium/channeler at a service in Portland, Oregon that moved him to tears. Fascinating. Thank you for the links here – I’ve not heard of any of them so look forward to looking.
Exploring is always interesting….
Timely article. A man I had a long-term relationship with died yesterday. My son was diagnosed with cancer (caught in time, thankfully) in July and my ex-husband died in early May. The losses and grief have really been a challenge for me to deal with. My dad died when I was 17 and while I’ve never spoken with him, I have felt his presence in my life.
I’d be open to the idea of a spiritual guide, or medium. And, thank you for being willing to share your experience so openly.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I, too, know something about grief. I had a terrible relationship with my father in life but in death it’s a whole different story. I’m aware that writing about this is risky because not everyone thinks this way and some judge, but this is what I believe based on experiences I’ve had that are not explainable by logic. The world was once thought to be flat, too, that’s what I always say. You might start with one of Jamie’s calls. It’s low risk and lower cost. Also, her courses are excellent. I did a weekend with her in San Diego and whoa, the unexpected happened. Blessings, Walker.
Whenever we experience a loss we tend to wonder about the afterlife. We want to believe that our loved ones are still here with us even when they are passed. 🙂
…and some of us do!
I have had dreams that left no doubt in my mind that a loved one was sending me a tender message. I believe the universe sends us messages and if we are quiet we can hear those messages. Thanks for sharing your story.
I so agree.
I am fascinated by this topic and have an open mind. Thank you for sharing your experiences with Elisa and Jamie. Definitely intrigued.
All very intriguing to me, too.
Wow-that is pretty interesting-I am going to look in to that-hope your spiritual family is doing well!
Thanks!