Brassieres and bra-fitting were the premise for a recent scene –I mean bitchfest–on RHONYC. If you don’t know what RHONYC means, that’s ok. You probably don’t want to. Suffice to say it was the first series that showed me up close and personal that actual grown women in midlife could wear a 32-inch bras. Or–imagine this: a 28FF. Seriously? I was NEVER that small.
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Finished reading and great tips. Left a comment on her site.
Thanks so much!
Michelle, thanks for your comment. You’re right, bra fitting isn’t an exact science, but I’m glad you ended up with something you could feel comfortable in.
I definitely need this. My sports bras fit perfectly. If I’m invited out to a fancy function – –a.k.a. anywhere which demands my tatas be enclosed in a traditional bra – – I’m screwed 🙂 I need a fitting.
I have a hard time finding a good bra that fits right. I think a bra fitting could come in handy.
I measure in at 34DD, but a 36D is much more comfortable. I hate it when the chicks at VS or wherever are like “You measure at this, so that’s what I’m bringing you.” Hello? Did you not understand me when I said the sister-size is more comfortable?
Most women wear wrong size bra. Terrific tips.
This post has inspired me to get measured, although the thought of finding out my true size is scary. I’ve been wearing soft boneless sports bras mostly. I’m bone free.Wanted to tweet her post but couldn’t find her share buttons. Just FYI
28FF! That’s ridiculous!
Thanks for sharing this. I have never had a proper bra fitting and thats why bra shopping for me is all about trial and error. One day I’m a 38D the next a 40DD just depends on the brand lol I need to replace my bras more often it’s just so hard. When I find one I like and that fits greats I buy multiples lol
I did learn a few things! Thank you for sharing. And yes her twitter button does not work, I tried to follow…
After I got professionally fitted, I felt like it looked like I lost 10 lbs. Made a big difference. However, the minute I get home, the bra is the first thing to come off!
One of the things that I’m really not crazy about (still looking to buy some new ones 😀 )
I just need to find a bra that doesn’t keep slipping up!
So glad you addressed this, most ladies wear ill-fitting bras and once you get fitted for one that fits the way it’s supposed to-it makes all the difference in the world!
xoxo, SS
The Southern Stylista
I just got fitted for the first time ever and was shocked at my measurement. I was way off! The new bras fit like a glove and make me look and feel so much better.
I got fitted once…and hated it lol. Heading over there now! I’m sure it’s going to be an interesting read!
It is so funny that I am reading this today, seeing that I just purchased a new bra yesterday. I have been in desperate need of a new bra, but the problem is finding a decent bra in my size that I will not have to take a loan out in order to buy it! Seriously, I am a busty gal and bras in my size are very far and few between and easily cost $30+ and they aren’t even the cute or pretty bras! Just the plain old “work horse” bra! I HATE bra shopping with a passion!!
It’s been a long time since I got professionally fitted and it’s definitely time to do it again. It’s amazing that most women wear the wrong size bra.
It’s been decades since I had a fitting – I find it really intimidating, but I know it would be really beneficial – my bra wearing has reduced to outside the house only – first thing I do when I get home is take that sucker off!
I hate doing a bra fitting but then it is always good to check in and make sure they are fitting correctly. I always do it when I shop at Victoria’s Secret because they are super fast and discreet!
It’s always interesting getting a real bra fitting done because I’m always surprised at what they tell me! I have noticed though that it can differ from place to place. Nordstrom (who has a great service btw) and Victoria’s Secret were different for me.
I HATE BRAS! I literally call them boobie prisons. It irks my soul how I’m one size at Victoria Secret and something totally different in department stores. I realize the importance of a properly fitting bra, but if I had it my way I’d NEVER wear one. #FREETHEBOOBIES!
I only wear a bra when I’m leaving the house and the dress/shirt calls for it. Most of what I wear are cute little sundresses that I don’t need to wear a bra with! #winning #FREETHEBOOBIES
I have a hard time finding a good bra that fits right. I did learn a few things! Thank you for sharing.
I think most of us knowingly or unknowingly end up wearing a wrong size bra & we get practiced to it. A bra fitting would be a good idea always, but as we get older most of slowly move away from trying out such ideas!
Love bras. Hate bras. So small I don’t need bras. Wear them more to just I guess be a part of the crowd!
I remember getting fitted for a nursing bra right after my son was born. I was a 34B before the baby and a 36B after – I remember being so shocked (and a tad bit disappointed to be honest) that my number had changed and not my cup size! And, yes, I know that means overall my boobs were bigger, but my ego was really hoping for like a 36 C or D. After all, they felt like they were going to explode – at least give me a bragging rights number, lol
Mind blown. I did not know there is what you call “professional bra fitter”. Never met one. The information are so helpful. All women must read it.
It’s amazing how many women are wearing the wrong size and/or type of bra. They need to be reading that post!