On the particular cruelty of being left out

February 24, 2026
This topic gets more comments than just about anything else I post here. I think it's universal. Being left out on purpose has a particular cruelty to it. It's...

Eric Dane’s last words

February 20, 2026
Eric Dane was handsome, gifted, and yes, tormented. He died only 10 months after revealing his ALS diagnosis. It took a while to diagnose, as is common with ALS....

Put a little love in your heart

February 13, 2026
Why the world needs love now, more than ever Everywhere we turn these days, it seems the world is moving faster, shouting louder, and forgetting the quiet power of...

Hot cocoa for your soul

February 9, 2026
Mid-winter is hot cocoa time, both literally and figuratively. Something to soothe body and soul is just the ticket for the Valentine season. So a cup of comforting hot...

Why I believe in past lives

February 4, 2026
Full disclosure: I am a past-life regressionist and often guide people to visit their past lives. But is it real? The Case for Reincarnation Reincarnation is often...

Give yourself the grace of letting go

January 28, 2026
The Grace of Letting Go As the years gather behind us, life begins to whisper its truest lessons. One of the gentlest—and the hardest—is this: we cannot keep...

Nostalgia and reality: two sides of a coin

January 26, 2026
The 1960s float in my memory like a haze of sunlight through a beaded curtain. Golden afternoons, music drifting from a transistor radio, the kind of melodies that...

Why we’re so stressed today — and what to do ab...

January 21, 2026
'Tis the post-holiday season when stress relief is on the agenda. (or relief, alone!) If you’ve noticed that stress feels like the default setting for so many...

How far would you go for a loved one?

January 19, 2026
How far would you go? I read an article in The Atlantic recently about a mom whose son suffered a traumatic brain injury in a car accident. He was left in what...

The emotional violence of needing to be right

January 15, 2026
There is a violence in the way some people insist on being right. Of aggressively insisting their view prevail. They don’t just want to be understood—they want to...

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