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Yes, out- and- out imitation shows a lack of originality. Yet, I like to think we all model ourselves after lots of people and create our own individual versions.
Yes, I think that’s the key–create our own individual versions.
Agreed. It’s only naturally to want to aspire to something we see, someone we want to emulate–the challenge is adding our own unique spin. (love the copy cat photo)
I always told my children “Be a leader not a follower”. Great article as always Carol1
What great motherly advice!
I agree, and I think it’s all about levels of confidence. When we’re younger many of us want to fit in and blend in. But hopefully with maturity comes some level of confidence to explore and become who we want to be.
We hope.
As usual, I find myself nodding when I read your work. Although I do subscribe to the philosophy of “Stealing Genius”. The wheel doesn’t always have to be re-invented.
Absolutely. It just gets creepy when someone follows everything you do.
Great post! Relax and just be yourself, in all of your weird wonderfulness. Right??
Yes because your own brand of weird wonderfulness always looks better than trying to adopt someone else’s!
We’re social animals, and I think we’re constantly looking at one another for cues as to how to behave, dress, feel…and yet, it’s important that from all the influences around us, we distill something original, that reflects our unique self. I feel sorry for those who are unable to do this, as it seems to signal a lack of personal wholeness.
Interesting way to frame it–it feels true.
LOVE this and a great message for teens! I remember trying so hard to fit in when I was younger. Now I’m totally content to just do my own thing, and if people think I’m weird….so what. I’ve learned to embrace my weirdness! 🙂
It’s interesting how we grow in confidence as we age. Thankfully.
Damn but it is hard risking originality. Every original thinker that hits the mainstream had to face numerous naysayers and self-doubt on the road to success. And I think it is even worse for women who can’t even seem to risk peeing alone without community support.
I’m glad I never had that need to be in a pack like that.
I do not know whether it’s just me or if everybody else encountering issues with your blog.
It seems like some of the written text on your content are running off the screen.
Can somebody else please comment and let me know if this is happening
to them as well? This may be a problem with my internet
browser because I’ve had this happen previously.
Cheers
So true. Embrace your uniqueness and run with it. Give yourself permission to let the real you emerge!
Bloggers don’t imitate…….we steal.
Now that’s pure flattery !!!