The other day someone pitched me on a workshop to identify “what’s holding you back.”
Well, yeah, I had to laugh. Because nothing has ever really held me back and now that I’m older, that’s especially true. Although I’ve never been the target customer for that kind of thing.
Today, though, age brings limitations. And changes.
Now that we’re older, the things we talk about with our friends have changed. Oh, sure, we still talk about travel and politics and and Covid. But then, there are markers of our age:
Mentions of the deaths of people we all knew back in the day as we come to terms with the idea that our peers are now making their transitions. This is the most jarring factor of age, to me: when people in my age group die. Mortality slaps me in the face in a way it never has before.
Medicare supplemental coverage is a huge conversation starter these days. Which? How much?
We talk about how we have noticed changes in our physical conditions. We’re less flexible. Have more aches and pains. And then, some of us are mobility challenged and if so, what do we do?
Planning for the future as an elder is starting to be a common topic. Can we age in place? Do we stay home or go somewhere else? When do we pull the trigger on the next step, of some sort of assisted living? What can we afford?
What should our spend rate be for our retirement income?
If we aren’t working or engaged in a fulfilling hobby, what to do with our free time?
I’m not here to provide answers, but to ask the questions, and now, I’m asking you:
Time is passing. What’s on your mind? And what is your next chapter?
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