Ok so here’s how it works

July 10, 2009



Very different.

But a relationship needs both, in the right proportions, for perfect seasoning.

Sometimes, a relationship might have too much pepper. Or salt.

If that happens, it’s good to be able to talk the recipe through, to determine the right proportion of each to make a perfect main course.

This week, FLH and I noticed that our seasoning was off a bit. We discussed the recipe openly, honestly and without defensiveness.

The result? a perfect main course.

Holy crap! This is the way I’ve always thought it should be.

And for the first time, it’s the way it is.

He is perfection.

I love this man more than…

Just “more than.”

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