The romance of it all

February 27, 2017
It was a starlit Valentine's night and we were in the Caribbean with friends. Romance was in the air. On the palm-tree enclosed patio, candles twinkled atop small...


February 20, 2017
I know there was a time when I was love-mad. But I can hardly remember it. Do you remember the kind of love that made you feel off the charts, manic if things were...

La La Land + love

February 14, 2017
After the Golden Globes, I saw sporadic criticism of the movie, La La Land from people who didn't think the actors merited the award. "They couldn't sing or dance...

From the barricades

December 9, 2016
On the record We were two of only about five Caucasians in the sushi restaurant. I saw eastern Indians, Pakistanis, Chinese, Japanese, Latinos, Sikhs and so many...

What price love?

November 4, 2016
We've come a long way since the snake pit style "insane asylums." A very long way.  Many types of mental illness can be treated and patients are no longer shamed and...

Rock and roll, love and synchronicity

September 14, 2016
I'd like to thank the guy, who wrote the song That made my baby fall in love with me Most women who hear that my  husband and I remarried after 26 years apart are...

When it’s time to leave

August 31, 2016
How lovely it would be if all relationships endured for a lifetime. Of course, they endure for more than a lifetime, that's my belief, but sometimes, in this...

Lucky in love

August 29, 2016
Looking out at the timelessness of the Montana landscape, the majestic mountains and the massive clouds that dominated the infinite sky, I couldn't help but think of...

“There are a lot of a**holes out there”

August 26, 2016
One of the people dearest to my heart said that to me the other day. She'd just split with a long-time guy, someone she cared deeply for, but didn't love in that...

Relationship closure: a story

August 4, 2016
Divorce is hard. It just is. There's no way around it, either. To get out the other side we have to go through it. Period. If you're the person who has been left and...

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