The gift of love

January 12, 2012
Curly Girl Designs We're just past the gift-giving season and for some of us, it's a big relief.Maybe this year we felt like we couldn't give as much.Or...

Relationship success depends on….

December 21, 2011
Who teaches us the artful give and take in intimate relationships?No one, at least not explicitly.We learn those things from watching others, usually our parents.And we...

Once you lose someone

December 19, 2011
Once you lose someone,it's never exactly the same person who comes back.-Sharon Olds After my mother died, I had dreams(or were they thoughts?) about her.In...

Work it out now

November 5, 2011
How many times have we deconstructed a relationshipin a dialogue that could have changed the course of historyhad it happened years ago?Don't wait.Trust yourself and...

Brother-husbands: equality in polygamy

November 1, 2011
We get our share of houseguests and they're usually my women friends. Or young people. It's rare that a straight male my age comes to stay, but that's what's happening...

Stay or go: the relationship conundrum

October 31, 2011
I am the last person who should talk about jettisoning people from your life forever. Especially relationships. I just don't do it.Oh, I stop seeing them. But I also...

Letting go

October 29, 2011
Art by Kara Taylor Friends fell away as I individuated on my soul's journey.As I shed one self-sense, I no longer identified with the people attached to it.Old...

Risk, dreams & looking like a fool

October 17, 2011
I want to knowif you will risk looking like a fool for lovefor your dreamfor the adventure of being alive~Oriah Mountain DreamerThe Invitation{I've always loved this...

9 signs that you’re exactly where you’re suppos...

September 20, 2011
Soulmate, twin souls--no matter what we call it, most of us are partnered up with someone. But, how can we tell it's the right someone? Here are some of the signs.1....

Soulmates: Option 2

September 5, 2011
Image: Nancy Lefko Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmatesand guys are just people to have fun with. — Candace Bushnell, author of Sex and the...

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