Soul choice: beyond karma

May 6, 2016
One of the hardest concepts for many of us to grasp is the idea that in this incarnation we volunteered for the things that happen in our life. This is particularly hard...

The secret about The Secret

March 16, 2016
It's been 10 years now since the book, The Secret, and its promotion of the law of attraction captured popular imagination. The law of attraction is said to be a...

Using chakras to heal

June 27, 2015
This chakra banner hangs on the wall directly across from my bed so I see it every day. And in fact, I lie in bed and my eyes are drawn to it, constantly. Chakra as a...

Did you have a past life?

June 15, 2015
The wild stories of traditional religion are something we've gotten used to. A virgin birth? Walking on water? Fishes and loaves? Raising the dead? They don't seem so...

Do you agree that resistance is futile?

March 14, 2015
The first time I heard this was at an est seminar in the early 1980s and it made perfect sense. (It might have been one of the few things at that seminar that...

Soul families and souls set apart

September 21, 2014
I've always been an observer, someone who's felt set apart from the crowd, moored a little out from shore. Truth is, I have always been very different from my family,...

Just trust

September 12, 2014
To a young woman I love and admire: Trust. The world is hard to navigate sometimes and some of the hills can really sap your strength. Just trust that the highest...

If we don’t look, we won’t see

August 29, 2014
I want to be with those who know secret things or else alone. ~Rainier Maria Rilke We know a lot, it's true, but we don't know everything. Even though we act like we...

Preparing for death: no unfinished business

August 23, 2014
Tell me, what else should I have done? Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon? ~Mary Oliver Would've, could've, should've. Who among us hasn't had those...

Benefits of emotional pain

August 19, 2014
  Whenever your perspective on something creates emotional pain, Carol, it's always because your perspective is still so narrow that you've yet to see all the good...

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