There’s something deeply comforting about knowing someone is thinking of you when you’re not feeling your best.

That’s why a handwritten get-well note of encouragement, even in this age of texts and emojis, still holds such power. It doesn’t have to be long or poetic—just heartfelt. If you’re unsure what to write, here are a few simple tips to help you craft a meaningful get well note that truly uplifts.

1. Keep It Personal and Sincere

Start with a warm greeting and use their name. Don’t overthink the opening—something as simple as “Dear Sarah,” or “Hi Tom,” works beautifully. Speak from the heart and let your words reflect your genuine care and concern. Your tone should match your relationship: warm and friendly, or lighthearted if that feels appropriate.

2. Offer a Few Kind Words

You don’t need to launch into a medical review. Instead, say something encouraging, like:

• “I hope each day brings a little more strength and comfort.”

• “You’ve got such a strong spirit—I know you’ll get through this.”

• “Wishing you peaceful rest and a smooth recovery.”

• “I’ve always admired your ability to face challenges head on, just like you’re doing now.”
  
• “Soon we’ll be back to sharing lunches together like before. Meanwhile, just concentrate on your recovery.“

Avoid phrases like “Everything happens for a reason” or “At least it’s not worse.” While often well-intentioned, those can be dismissive of what the person is actually going through.

3. Share a Memory or Thought

If you’re close, add a personal touch. Mention a shared memory, a funny moment, or even something light from your day to make them smile. A little levity can lift the spirits more than you might imagine.

4. Offer Specific Help

If you’d like to help, be specific. Rather than saying “Let me know if you need anything,” try:

• “I’d love to drop off a meal next week—any dietary needs I should know about?”

• “Can I walk your dog this weekend?”

• “May I drop by the grocery store for you this week?”
  
• “How about my taking you for a cup of tea next week? I’ll call later in the week to see if you’d like to set that up.”

It’s these concrete offers that feel most sincere and actionable.

5. Close with Warmth

End your note with a caring sentiment, like:

• “Thinking of you and sending healing hugs,”

• “With all my love,”

• “Can’t wait to see your smile again soon.”

Then, sign your name. Simple as that.

A Few Final Thoughts

You don’t have to be a writer to write a get-well note. You just have to show up with your heart on the page. In a world where we rush through texts and skim messages, taking the time to send a thoughtful note says you matter in a way that lingers.

And really, isn’t that the best medicine?

Don’t forget–you can include one of our gently supportive healing gifts with your note or let us send it (or both) for your. Find them right HERE.

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