Nostalgia and reality: two sides of a coin

January 26, 2026

nostalgia

The 1960s float in my memory like a haze of sunlight through a beaded curtain. Golden afternoons, music drifting from a transistor radio, the kind of melodies that stitched themselves right into the soul. Each song seemed to know us, to whisper our secret hopes and heartbreaks.

I remember the swish of bell bottoms as I walked, the daring hem of a miniskirt brushing against my knees, the soft defiance of dressing in colors the world wasn’t quite ready for. Even clothes felt like possibility.

Summer nights stretched endlessly then. Lying on blankets under a velvet sky, we laughed at nothing and everything, our voices mingling with the crackle of distant radios. A VW bus parked nearby, incense curling into the warm air—it felt as if we were inventing life itself, discovering what freedom meant in real time.

And then there were the moments that made us hold our breath: a black-and-white TV screen glowing in a darkened room as men walked on the moon, our eyes wide with awe; the nights of sudden silence when assassinations shattered our illusions of safety. The decade carried both light and shadow, woven tightly together.

When I look back now, it feels less like memory and more like a dream—colors brighter than they were, music more alive, hope more certain.

And yet, that very contrast sharpens my sorrow at the world we see today. Where we once believed in peace and possibility, we now witness division deepened like canyons. The dream of equality we marched for is still deferred. We once cried “make love, not war,” but today wars grind on, fueled by greed and cruelty. Gunfire claims our children in classrooms. Lies masquerade as truth. The compassion that seemed to flower in that decade now too often feels trampled under rage, apathy, or the pursuit of power.

The dismay is real—like watching a bright photograph fade to gray.

But still, the memory of the 1960s reminds me what we are capable of when we dare to hope, when we insist on better. That decade planted seeds that have not all withered. And maybe, just maybe, the dream we dreamed then can rise again, if only we’re willing to fight for it.

9 comments on “Nostalgia and reality: two sides of a coin
  1. Thanks for the trip down memory lane. We had our share of uprisings then, too, but today I find myself shaking my head and asking what happened to compassion and common decency??

  2. Loved this line “The dismay is real—like watching a bright photograph fade to gray.” I’m with you. 100%

  3. adela says:

    All that hope had a lot of violence and unrest, too. Remember Kent State? That seemed to turn the tide. Maybe we’re at the breaking point now.

    • Yes, it did. But somehow, this feels worse. It has the power of so many evil people behind it. I just don’t think they were out of the closet back then. I pray this has turned the tide.

  4. Beth Havey says:

    Beautiful post, truth, as to how our lives have been. Joy and sorrows in this country that allows anyone to own a gun….and then puts forth the idea that anyone in power is allowed to decide who lives, who dies. I am grieving and feel like I knew Pretti when I worked as an RN.

  5. Laurie Stone says:

    I remember the 60s vividly. Only then we had the Vietnam war on the television every night. Now it feels like we’re always at war. Although these days, it’s internal.

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