What they don’t tell you about aging

April 15, 2026

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Here’s what they don’t tell you about aging:

All the losses you’ll experience.

Friends and loved ones will die. Some from aging, but some too soon.

Or they’ll become sick and infirm.

They’ll be taken from you, maybe even by their own families.

Your circle becomes smaller.

Sometimes it just disappears.

You’ll experience your own personal losses, too.

Your body.

Your brain.

Your anticipation of what lies ahead.

Your life changes in ways you never imagined.

All the things you counted on–the love, the support, the passion, the friendship–the ability to do anything and everything–

all gone forever.

This is the great pain of aging that no one warns you about.

But, most of us? We soldier on. It seems like the best alternative.

What about you? What has no one told you about aging?

2 comments on “What they don’t tell you about aging
  1. Debbie Scholes says:

    I turned 68 today. Not old, in my opinion, but I have lost friends younger than myself, and my Dad died at 71. It makes me even more sad now, than it did in 2010 when he died because he had so much more he wanted to do, which was heartbreaking, and now that I am close to the year he died and think about how much I still want to do, I grieve his life even more than I did then which doesn’t seen possible.

    • I feel you on this. I remember when my mother realized her life would be cut short, she said “Now I’ll miss everything!” and she was right. That is why I live every moment fully. In her memory and honor.

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