Nostalgia and reality: two sides of a coin

January 26, 2026
The 1960s float in my memory like a haze of sunlight through a beaded curtain. Golden afternoons, music drifting from a transistor radio, the kind of melodies that...

How far would you go for a loved one?

January 19, 2026
How far would you go? I read an article in The Atlantic recently about a mom whose son suffered a traumatic brain injury in a car accident. He was left in what...

The emotional violence of needing to be right

January 15, 2026
There is a violence in the way some people insist on being right. Of aggressively insisting their view prevail. They don’t just want to be understood—they want to...

I saw the hunger for human kindness

January 12, 2026
I wore this sweatshirt on a plane to and from Maui and again on my holiday flights to New York and back.  I was surprised at the number of people in the airport and on...

Why being ghosted by a friend isn’t always a bad thin

January 7, 2026
Being Ghosted by a Friend — and Why It’s Sometimes a Gift in Disguise There are few things as disorienting as being ghosted by someone you once...

How to be your own advocate in the hospital

January 2, 2026
How to Be Your Own Advocate in the Hospital Hospitals can be intimidating places. The language, the pace, the constant rotations of staff—it’s easy to feel small...

Why we can’t afford to look away from inhumanity

December 29, 2025
There are times when silence becomes complicity — and this is one of them. The most brutal of examples is Hamas. What Hamas has done is not resistance, not...

How to support wildlife in winter

December 22, 2025
Winter may be beautiful, but it can be brutal for our wild animal friends. As temperatures drop and natural food sources become scarce, birds, squirrels, and other...

What’s happening here?

December 19, 2025
There's something happening here What it is ain't exactly clear There's a man with a gun over there Telling me we need to beware.* Many of that man's supporters...

Why we should not fear visits from extra-terrestrials

December 12, 2025
A follow on to the last post: We imagine them in the dark: silver ships, cold eyes, a verdict passed on humanity. Fear lights up instantly — it’s an old wiring,...

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