Five things I learned in therapy

September 16, 2026
I'm a believer in therapy. Real therapy. With a good therapist. (Not all therapists are good.) Why do I believe in it? Therapy teaches us how to understand the life we're actually living—and how to stop making the same painful mistakes. (If we choose to. Some of us just love to keep the old...

Correcting the record

November 6, 2010
We progressives have allowed ourselves to be mischaracterized for too long. It's past time to be more aggressive in correcting the record. To stand up more assertively...

Gonzo wisdom

November 6, 2010
"Politics is the Art of Controlling Your Environment" That is one of the key things I learned in these years, and I learned it the hard way. Anybody who thinks that "it...

The fine art of gratitude

November 5, 2010
Allowing an unimportant mistaketo pass without commentis a wonderful social grace.-Miss Manners 'Tis the season for those gosh-awful scarves that you'll never...

How?

November 5, 2010

Old typewriter montage

November 5, 2010

Bad mommy

November 4, 2010
Some of my favorite online haunts are entertainment industry gossip columns and I'm not afraid to admit it.I'm well-educated, have had responsible jobs and a long career...

A sea of orange & black

November 4, 2010
More than one million people. That's the Giants estimate of the number of fans that lined the streets and filled Civic Center Plaza to celebrate our Giants' World Series...

Players nobody wanted became a team no one could beat

November 3, 2010
San Francisco's always been a bit different.We elected gay politicians to public office before it was considered possible.And have always had a strong gay...

Adorable puppies

November 3, 2010

Winning cupcakes for a winning day

November 2, 2010
A couple of years ago, these adorable confections won a "cutest cupcake" contest held by Martha Stewart, and I can see...

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