Why couldn’t he have been different?

July 22, 2012
Why couldn't he have been different? It was a plaintive question, heartbreaking and not uncommon. Lover, spouse, sibling, friend, even child-- people will fail...

The paradox of death

July 22, 2012
 Because I could not stop for Death,He kindly stopped for me; The carriage held but just ourselves And Immortality.  -Emily Dickinson It's always seemed curious...

A happy bride then, a happy wife now

July 21, 2012
L to R: my maternal grandparents Papa & Mama, me, Michael. July15, 1972 Who knew that I'd have only one surviving official photograph  from my first marriage...

Forget ….but remember

July 21, 2012
This sounds like the very best way to deal with pain: Remember the lesson, even as we forget what caused it. This definitely does not come naturally. Probably...

3 tips for handling marital conflict

July 20, 2012
I'm embarrassed to admit that I hurled a radish at M the other week. We were having a...discussion...and I felt he wasn't hearing me. I'd been slicing radishes from...

A grandfather’s love

July 19, 2012
I've been deep into a box of old photographs these past few months and in Rochester this week tracking down clues to a family mystery that I may write about. But from...

A Dove® body wash that moisturizes as it cleanses–an...

July 18, 2012
;I love a good body wash. Waiting on my bathroom counter last month was an expensive department store cosmetic company brand and I couldn't wait to open it. What a...

Train harder

July 17, 2012
I know it's true.   We have to work out so hard  that we look like crap at the end. But I don't have to like it. One day, things that are good for us will...

Going home again

July 16, 2012
Home.For me, it's always been several places. Syracuse. Tallahassee. Los Gatos. San Jose. Mountain View. Saratoga. Tampa. Schoen Place But there's only one hometown...

Happy wedding anniversary X 2

July 15, 2012
Today is our anniversary. Actually, it's our anniversaries. Plural. We've been and also are celebrating this wedding anniversary How can this be?After 37 years...

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