When we come from fear

September 23, 2026
Sometimes people don’t come from anger or any other emotion. Even if that's how it seems. Instead, they come from fear. In fact, I'd lay odds on the fact that most of us come from fear most of the time: Fear of being rejected. Fear of losing control. Fear of not being enough. Fear that if we...

If only…

February 7, 2010
....you could have seen M. pushing a cart in a crowded Walmart in Mountain View, where we were the only Caucasians.I know there are people who would pay good money to...

Unpacking haiku

February 6, 2010
I love my candles.But why do I have hundreds?Am I a...

Sit Saturday ~ best question

February 6, 2010
Several questions our dog trainer asked really hit home.She suggested that we not allow Riley up on a chair by the window."Then he can't look out the window," I...

Managing’s tougher than it seems

February 6, 2010
Bad bosses? We've all had them. I've long believed that management can be a thankless task. Someone's usually unhappy -- either the company or the employee. Sometimes...

Gratitude Friday ~ a ride in the mountains

February 6, 2010
This morning I took a drive "over the hill," which refers to driving Highway 17 over the Santa Cruz mountains. I've made that drive hundreds of times since 1984, and...

Training Riley, training us

February 5, 2010
Our new dog trainer spent almost half a day with us yesterday and I have to say that it was worth every minute.I can't say that I heard a lot significantly different...

Know thyself

February 5, 2010
I've known several women well who've dated men who did nonprofit work in third-world countries.High-maintenance women.I say that will all the respect in the world and...

He surveys his domain

February 4, 2010

Learning disability

February 4, 2010
I support the president. I do. And I think having him in office is better than having any one of the intellectually-weak right wing cabal in the White House.I'm proud...

Just askin’

February 4, 2010
Me to husband last night: "Have you ever cooked a meal?"Husband: "No."Me: "How about a dish, something that's your "specialty"?Him: "No."Me, incredulous: ...

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