The challenges of parenting today

June 29, 2026
I can't think of anything harder than parenting today. I don't have children of my own, but I clearly see the challenges in raising them today. It must feel like like trying to raise a human in a house with no walls and a thousand open windows. Your kids hear every voice and are exposed to every...

Here’s how to get busy living instead of getting busy...

October 12, 2021
It doesn't take a psychic to understand how hopeless people can feel as we close off our second year of a pandemic. I've had my own moments of feeling like I'm...

Reaching back to the carefree innocence of the past

October 11, 2021
Isn't this an eye-catching image? What I love most is the sense of carefree ease it conveys to me, at a time I really long for that kind of carefree innocence. That's...

Why I no longer twist like a pretzel

October 6, 2021
There was a day when I'd knock myself out trying to make a friendship or relationship work. Twist like a pretzel. Oh, the life contortions I was willing to make, the...

If God is love, and He is, find him here

October 5, 2021
If, like me, you've wondered where simple human decency went, especially among professed "Christians," you will love John Pavlovitz' new book, If God is Love, Don't...

How can we make this place beautiful?

September 30, 2021
The world is at least fifty percent terrible, and that’s a conservative estimate, though I keep this from my children. For every bird there is a stone thrown at...

Don’t ever lose heart

September 28, 2021
It's so important to stop, rest, take a break--even in the midst of all the craziness in our world. To not lose heart. How easy it is to spin out on the crazies,...

Caution: opinion sanitizing station ahead!

September 23, 2021
I'm shaking my head this morning as I read dozens of comments on a social media post I made of Jennifer Lopez wearing a wrinkly maxi dress (not the one in the image,...

Don’t kid yourself: inherited pain is real

September 22, 2021
Inherited Pain Children who were abandoned grow up to love people who abandon them. This stopped me in my tracks with its truth. Inherited pain is...

Easy scallops recipe for company or a night in

September 21, 2021
Making perfect scallops is easier than you think. I've watched chefs make them on so many cooking shows that if I can't make them by now, well, something's wrong....

What’s the best revenge?

September 16, 2021
l The best revenge is no revenge. Move on. Be happy. Find inner peace. Flourish. ~from a meme my friend, Peter, posted on social media. Just too wise to not...

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