Why the lies we tell ourselves are so dangerous

October 27, 2025
If you ask most people whether they lie, they’ll insist they don’t.  And in a way, they’re right—many of us aren’t in the habit of telling big, bold lies to others. But to ourselves? That’s a different story. Self-deception is one of humanity’s favorite coping mechanisms,...

Denial

February 24, 2009
Well, we've really made a mess of things this time, haven't we?A little too much hubris about the great American way of life, maybe. A little too much corporate greed. A...

if you didn’t see the delightful Hugh Jackman last ni

February 23, 2009
His opening number was great - I laughed aloud & heartily more than a few times-- and he infused new energy into the Oscars. Plus, he's a total fox. Be sure to...

B’sheret

February 23, 2009
I am just nuts for Gerbera daisies. They're such a vibrant, upbeat and happy flower. And the color range is awesome.I know roses mean love but to me, it's Gerbera...

It just happened

February 23, 2009
One of my best girlfiends just quoted the Desiderata, in a conversation."No doubt the Universe is unfolding, as it should," she observed.I cracked up.And resisted the...

Truisms/2

February 23, 2009

Sign of the times, redux?

February 23, 2009

Needs no comment.

February 23, 2009

Go green…or don’t go at all

February 23, 2009
"Savannah has been celebrating St Patrick's Day since 1813, and this year is the 185th annual St Patrick's Day Parade. Every year, more than 300,000 people visit...

Goodbyes

February 22, 2009
After a difficult week in California, I got home last night to a huge amount of love and support. I can't express how blessed I feel and I wish I could write more about...

On my way home at noon

February 21, 2009
The mover is hired, some boxes are already on their way and I'm leaving California in a few hours. When I return, it will be as a visitor, not a resident, something that...

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