When our cultural icons die

September 7, 2026
As I write this we’ve just lost both Dolly Parton and Gloria Steinem, two women who helped shape our generation. Why do I feel such grief? It hits differently when a cultural icon dies. The grief can seem strangely disproportionate to the relationship we actually had with them. We had...

Helping a friend through gray divorce

July 14, 2015
Some of us get a little squirrelly when a friend's long-term marriage ends.  It's called "gray divorce" and if ever our friend needed our support, it's during this...

All the reasons

July 13, 2015
I come from a long line of fearful people, the kind who could give you all the reasons why NOT to do something and none of the reasons why they should. They knew why...

Makeup trends: what’s old is new again

July 12, 2015
I love the fashion and beauty industries. There really is very little new in either, just a recycling of old fashion and makeup trends that were once fresh and new. So I...

The hissing of summer lawns

July 11, 2015
It's only 8am but the sun beats down hard from a deep blue sky, belying the thermometer, which reads 67 degrees. We're walking Riley before the heat of the day takes...

How to die

July 10, 2015
 Dying is one of the ceremonies of life. - Ram Dass Most of us run from the idea of death as if it were the devil itself. But as we age, we can't escape the thought...

Waiting for a sign

July 9, 2015
The prestigious Commonwealth Club of California, which touts itself as the nation's oldest and largest public affairs forum and has played host to such luminaries as...

The best of Gore Vidal

July 8, 2015
If you have never read anything by writer Gore Vidal and you enjoy incisive, witty writing, do a little search and find at least one of his many books that sounds...

Delicious, easy grilled salmon

July 7, 2015
It's really not so hard to eat healthy, and it's pleasurable, too.  When I saw King salmon on sale the other day I had an idea for a delicious, easy grilled salmon...

Vintage couture in the 20th century

July 6, 2015
Gorgeous gowns and couture going back 100 years are part of a collection borrowed from the Brooklyn Museum of Art that's closing soon at the Legion of Honor Museum in...

Brain fitness at any age

July 5, 2015
The brain's a bit of a mystery, and these days, so are such things as where we put our keys, the right word and myriad other things. It's as if --after a lifetime of...

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